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Complex Realities of Divorce: Causes, Challenges, and Legal Insights

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08 Oct

At least divorce is less expensive than the wedding

Nowadays people congratulate themselves on being divorced……...Obvious reason – “Good riddance to bad rubbish” Not a joke. 

Divorce is the end of an error…... you never really know someone…Until you divorce them.


Couples don’t realize that Your children's world has exploded, or is about to explode, because of a shell. They have the impression that chaos is upon them, and as a result, they are responding in a disorderly manner, as anyone would.


There are numerous causes for divorce among individuals. They could be social, personal, or economic. Nonetheless, there are a few particular causes for divorce. First, more women than ever before are working and making more money than their spouses. They can therefore afford to live independently. What’s a queen without her king?


Divorce proceedings can involve numerous complexities. One common issue is the division of assets and liabilities, which can become contentious when determining who gets what property and how debts are shared. Child custody and visitation arrangements often lead to emotional disputes, as parents may have differing opinions on what is best for their children. 


Also, the financial support, such as alimony or child support, adds another layer of complexity, as calculations and agreements need to be made fairly. Legal proceedings themselves can be intricate, requiring extensive paperwork and court appearances. Emotional strain and communication breakdown between the parties further complicate negotiations and decisions. Overall, navigating these various factors requires careful consideration and often legal expertise to ensure a fair and equitable resolution for all involved.


According to a survey, Canadian immigrant women are less likely to get divorced. Statistics Canada reports that Canadian-born women are almost twice as likely as immigrant-born women to apply for divorce from their common-law partners or husbands. Individuals who were married before coming to Canada, as well as those whose parents had never separated, had a significantly higher likelihood of staying married or in common-law partnerships after their immigration. “I have no problem admitting when I’m wrong …Like that one time I got married”. – disclosed a woman in the court 


Historically, another contributing factor could be the increasing number of married couples with children, especially as the children grow older and require more parental attention due to schooling. This may lead to less time for parents to spend together, potentially resulting in an increased likelihood of divorce.


To ensure constant excitement in any relationship, strive to have completely incompatible life goals and communication styles. It’s a surefire way to keep things interesting—nothing like a good argument to spice up your day!"

 But some partners want a divorce because of their kids. They have lost interest in raising them. They have little interest in controlling their own fate. Judge asked the husband and wife, “you have 3 kids…how will you divide them after divorce? They had a long discussion and at last they came to a conclusion that they will come back next year after having another child.


Some people want to file for divorce because they can't afford to live together. One of them may be unemployed or have lost their job. Another aspect is the desire of one partner to divorce the other in order to benefit financially more. Couples also face financial difficulties. They don't know how to handle their money. They overspend on things that are not necessary. When they eat out, they overpay. They invest in expensive cars. They buy much too many products that they hardly ever use. They seem to get stuck between: “I need to save money” and “you only live once.”


On the news currently, some politicians are calling those spouses who stay after an affair “STUPID”. One of the main causes of Canada's rising divorce rate is that "couples are falling prey to adulterous affairs." The fact that divorce has always been a possibility in our society should not be overlooked. Simply said, keeping these facts out of the public light is easier.


Immigrants in Canada show stronger commitment to their marriages and common-law unions, with lower divorce rates among newer generations. Consequently, they are less inclined to enter into new common-law partnerships or marriages. One woman divorced her husband because of religious reasons. He thought he was GOD, but she did not.


At RRM Law - Our main goal as Family Lawyers is to assist you in resolving your family law issues in the most favorable way possible. We serve a diverse clientele, including husbands, wives, mothers, fathers, common-law partners, grandparents, and children. Our expertise lies in all areas of family law, focusing especially on complex child custody disagreements and detailed financial issues.


While the legal process may seem daunting, beginning the journey doesn't need to be. Reach out to us by phone or email, and we'll help guide you through your Family Law issue and find the best resolution for your family.